MEN, I PROMISE YOU…YOURE NOT ALONE.



 Dear Men,

  You might be going through something right now.

You might be feeling down.

You might feel like the world is against you.

You might feel like your worth is at an all time low.

Maybe you are struggling with money.

Maybe she broke your heart.

Maybe you lost your job.

Maybe you lost a family member

Maybe you don’t even know the true root of your struggle right now.

I know this sounds cliche…but you are not alone. You don’t have to battle your demons alone. You don’t need to figure everything out alone. You don’t need to bottle up all your emotions and wear the mask of someone who has it all together.

You can let it out.

I promise you, you can let it out.

I promise you that you are stronger than you know.

I promise you rock bottom isn’t permanent.

I promise you that the light always returns.

I promise you that it will get better.

There is only one thing I ask of you and I need you do this for me…

I need you to keep going.

It might seem hard to do right now, but you have to keep going.

Whatever it is that you have going on right now, we will figure it out.

We will shift into the Keep Going Mindset.

Because as long as you don’t give up, you are winning. Realize that. If you’re battling the toughest time in your life right now, if you keep going, you are succeeding. Step 1 to getting better is to keep going.

I believe in you.

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